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Learn because you want to… Not because you have to..

How many of you are ready to get good marks if you are rewarded with nothing? How many of you are ready to spend hours and hours in your daily job where you don’t get salary in return? Are you ready to leave your favourite TV series and prefer reading books if there is no one to scold you for your grades? I know these questions may seem funny or easy to answer but they are not that simple. To answer the above questions you need to know your inner self. If you genuinely answer these questions then you will understand whether you really love what you are doing or is it just because you get something in return.

We have hobbies, we have passions but there comes a phase in life where you don’t have time to follow your interests. Mostly we get attracted towards jobs that will offer us a good package and we forget the things that offer us “happiness” not in the form of money but in the form of “immense satisfaction“. I know all these may sound philosophical but never underestimate your hobbies and talents because there is something unique in everyone of you which sets you apart from the world. All you need to do is spend at least some time with yourself and explore your hidden ideas. Do at least one thing where you don’t expect any money or fame in return because-

you are here to learn because you want to and not because you have to…

Be the best version of yourself

From the day we are born to the day we grow old, most of us are told to be like somebody and follow their footsteps. Very few people would genuinely tell you to discover yourself and jump in the unknown areas.

All of us are fascinated by entrepreneurs and scientists. But you know what makes them unique and great. It’s their “thinking” and “self-belief”. They are always ready to follow the less travelled path and discover the best possibilities on the way. They aren’t afraid of the world’s opinion. Setbacks and failures cannot stop them. They have a firm belief in their idea and the courage to reshape the world with their idea. All of us can think in this manner but for that you need to learn, unlearn and relearn the things in your life. You must understand the fact that you are a human being who possess the ability to think, analyse and have your own perception.

Be the best version of yourself. Let the best of you come out because life is really too short to be wasted in blindly following others footsteps. You are the master of your life. There are lots of hidden talents and capabilities in you. Discover yourself and be the best you can be. You are infinite and can achieve anything. It only depends on how badly you want it. It’s okay even if you don’t know where you are going but be fully present in the moment. Don’t let your past or future influence your present decisions.

It has been rightly said by Steve Jobs –

“Your time is limited so don’t waste it living someone else’s life”

Everyone deserves to be loved

Most of us love rose-the king of flowers and the symbol of love. Do you love this flower because of the colourful petals? Or do you love it because it grows on the plant having thorns? You love this flower because in front of the pleasant smell and beautiful petals of it you don’t give attention to the tiny thorns present on the stem. This shows even the nature is not perfect but you still fall in love with the nature.

Everyone of us love to be ourselves. We love our true self. But sometimes you will come across people who wish you would have been different than what you really are. They want to change you and expect you to be perfect in every sense and even if you try to make some changes in you just for the sake of pleasing someone then there comes a day when you are definitely going to lose the “real you”. Then you too would try to change some other person but at the end it all lead to clashes and chaos, the bonding of the relationship weakens, the purity of love fades and the two souls who promised each other to spend the rest of the life together separates. Where lies the problem? What is the solution? Well, the problem is “too much of expectations”. The problem is wanting each other to be perfect and not accepting the fact that we are humans. We make mistakes, we are unique in our own way, we may have different opinions..etc.. etc..

You fall in love. You express your love by saying those three magical words-“I love you”. But you don’t know what exactly is the true essence of saying these magical words. Here “you” means the real nature of that person. You do all sorts of things to impress each other but whenever you don’t like any of the quality then you argue, you fight. Both of you want to prove each other who is right and who is wrong. But none of you is ready to sort the matter because you forget that the relationship matters more than proving oneself.

Everyone deserves to be loved unconditionally. We all are complete in ourselves but still need someone by our side, the one who won’t leave you alone no matter what may come, the one who will argue and fight but not to prove each other wrong but to end the fight so that they can sort the matter quickly together.

Let’s not focus only on the negative traits of people. Let’s not judge someone by few faults. Let’s keep a broad vision and a heart that love the people the way they are. Let’s praise them for their good qualities. Let’s laugh with them when they do mistakes but don’t leave their hand and love them selflessly till the end.

10 sure-fire ways to boost your confidence

  1. Make your daily to do list- Get up in the morning with full zest and zeal. Now take a pen and paper. Jot down what tasks has to be completed today. Write them as per the priorities then start working to finish those task before the deadline. You can reward yourself by let’s say some chocolates or anything you love.
  2. Try something new- when you try something new then you are indirectly pushing yourself out of your comfort zone and that’s the most important trait of a confident person. Whenever you are given a new task then don’t think you can’t figure it out. Just think you can accomplish it and will give your level best.
  3. Work a bit extra– if today you decided to study 3 chapters in 2 hours then don’t get stuck to it if you have completed it on or before time. Then try if you can read one more chapter. This will increase your will power and confidence.
  4. Be yourself -you don’t need to put extra make up to act confident but you must be extremely comfortable in the way you have dressed up, the way you walk, the way you talk.
  5. Love yourself like hell-this is the key to confidence. Unless and until you like your traits then how can you expect people to love you. Love your perfections and imperfections.
  6. Genuinely praise people for their achievements– all of us love to boast about our achievements but only a confident person can make others feel confident by being compassionate and showing gratitude.
  7. Don’t get influenced by other’s opinion- do what you like. Sometimes it’s okay to say “no”.
  8. Connect with more people and talk to them in person- Don’t be shy. No-one will judge you because everyone is really busy in their own world.
  9. Do some physical exercise or get involve in some sports.
  10. Don’t say no if you ever get a chance to speak in front of public.

Hope the above tips will help you to boost your confidence.

Jyoti Meena shared an answer on Quora with you

What are the top 5 novels which a student can read so that he can get motivated? by Jyoti Meena https://www.quora.com/What-are-the-top-5-novels-which-a-student-can-read-so-that-he-can-get-motivated/answer/Jyoti-Meena-75?share=f0bf84cd&srid=5cTv2

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6 ways to achieve the zenith of success

  1. Something is better than nothing– every body can do something but no one can do everything. Sometimes we are too much obsessed with the idea of “perfectionism” that we are scared to take our first step just because we aren’t sure whether we will be able to do the task perfectly or not.
  2. Enjoy the journey and don’t worry about the destination- if you have decided a goal then you must contribute your time towards achieving that goal by enjoying the process of learning. If you keep worrying about the destination then you would end up getting worried and anxious about the future and this would not allow you to immerse yourself completely in your work.
  3. Embrace the uncertainties– it’s good to have a plan. It’s good to be organised and disciplined. But sometimes things don’t go your way and you must accept this fact. That doesn’t mean you would sit idle and get depressed. Actually, these are the moments which will help you to grow as a person. There are lots of opportunities hidden in the form of uncertainties. All you got to do is grab the opportunity, mould it the way you want and be the change you want to see in the world.
  4. Every person you meet in your life plays a very important role– this may be bit difficult to to accept but this cannot be denied too. Some people will praise you and boost you up with the positive energy. The people who criticise you are actually igniting a energy within you to improve yourself and accomplish more and more. This would make you to push your limits and achieve the impossible.
  5. Be your own teacher- everything cannot be taught in schools. If you are truly passionate about something then your greatest teacher is “your desire”. You must have a extremely burning desire to excel at your task. For example, you wish to improve your communication skills then you can make use of the online sources and learn on your own.
  6. Books can transform your behaviour- develop a habit of reading books and believe me I’m telling this from my personal experience it can improve the way you think, the way you act and also the way you make decisions. If you read biographies then you can know how those great people handled the uncomfortable situations. Reading fiction would take you in the new world of fantasies and your imagination would get more stronger. Books taught me patience and I have improved my listening skills. Books taught me that sometimes it’s not enough to learn but to learn, unlearn and relearn.

दोस्ती की परिभाषा

दोस्ती की क्या परिभाषा है यह तो हमें नही पता।

कौन कब इस दिल को लुभा जाता है यह तो हमें नही पता।

क्या झगड़ना, एक दूसरे को सताना दोस्ती हैं?

क्या हसी मजाक करके एक दूसरे को हसाना दोस्ती है?

क्या बचपन की वो प्यारी सी शैतानिया दोस्ती है?

या फिर वो एक दूसरे के सामने बचकाने तरह तरह के चेहरे बनाना दोस्ती है?

ना है इसका कोइ एक जवाब क्योंकि यह दोस्ती बहुत खास है।

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