Give it a thought

The daily insta stories

The most liked post on facebook

The filters to hide your real beauty

Says everything is going great in your life, isn’t it??

The number of likes make you happy

The virtual comments keep you motivated to post more and more

To show the world that you are the one everyone should adore

The nights which are meant for rest and closing your eyes so that you can get up fresh the next day and give your level best..

But you spend those nights scrolling down..left and right and next morning get up feeling tired thinking something is not alright..

There would be days when you need someone by our your side..to hold your hand and hug you tight…

On such days instead of asking for help you decide to handle things on your own and not let others think that you are feeling weak even if you are extremely homesick

You decide to bear that fake smile on your face…try to look confident

And later complain no one asked “How you are feeling?”

Well.. How can somebody know unless and until you go and talk to them and pour your heart out and figure things out…

The whatsapp status says you are the luckiest person in the world receiving everything you ever needed…

The daily picture says you are definitely having fun with those who are their in those catchy pictures..

The captions hide the feelings of your heart..

Heart is screaming, “Hey, that isn’t true!!”

This is just to belittle your colleagues and the people who are there in your contact list

But something is missing..

You know what??

The feeling of contentment and companionship

The best moments cannot be captured in any of the world class camera

Similarly, the best feelings can be perceived and recieved but cannot be written in the form of flowery captions…

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Spread your wings..

The little bird sitting on a branch

Thinking to spread her wings

Waiting for the breeze to blow

She didn’t know her path but still wanted to go..

But where would she go?

“The whole world is yours..don’t be afraid” came the voice from the tree

The tree knew that the bird was bit doubtful and bit scared

“Every one says to follow a particular path but I want to discover the unknown” said the bird in a low voice

A drop of tear started rolling down her cheek…

“You are the beautiful creature of god..you are provided with the beautiful wings.. Go spread your wings and explore the unknown” said the tree

The sun rays fell on the colourful feathers of the bird

The bird was glowing..

With a belief in the heart she decided to begin her flight

Without worrying about anything she decided to go as far as possible

The tree felt happy looking at the cheerful face of the bird

They looked more attractive now

I have seen myself growing…

The books became my friends

The surroundings became my teacher

The experiences taught me a lesson which the school and the university failed to do

The situations made me a person who is totally different than what I could ever imagine as a child..

I have seen myself getting off the track

I have seen myself breaking down

I have seen myself shedding tears all alone

I have seen myself sitting in a corner feeling helpless

I have seen myself getting trapped in the so called failure trap

I have seen myself developing strength to face all the failures

I have seen myself falling down

I have seen myself getting up with a hope to succeed again

I have seen myself feeling heartbroken when I realised how easily people change

I have seen myself feeling strong when those who truly care for me were ready to hold my hand

I didn’t fear of being alone so I decided to leave those who just knew how to fake things..

I started looking at things as they are and this taught me not to expect too much from anyone

I started defining success differently

I started being what I am and I said what I felt

And now I won’t stop

If I fall down..

I will get up again

If there are people who think I am weak

Then I will focus on people who believe in my abilities

I’m ready to walk alone

And I am ready to invest my energy in discovering the unknown

When you know what you want then everything else becomes secondary…

Let your spark speak..

In the room full of lights lived a candle under an old table where people fail to notice it

Well… Who would bother to light up the candle when the room was full of bright tube lights and bulbs…

Poor candle felt heartbroken and sad

Thinking there’s no-one who would help it to see it’s light again

Then on a stormy dark night

The lights went off

Some people entered the room

But all they could see was darkness all around

“There was a candle lying under the table”- said the little girl in joy

She took the candle and lighted it

The darkness faded away

The spark of the candle was on it’s way

The candle felt extremely happy this day

All of us carry a unique spark…And the day you realize this that day you are definitely gonna create a mark”

The sunshine blogger award💕💕

I express my heartiest thanks to Vijethkannan for nominating my blog for this award.

https://backtechinfo.wordpress.com/2019/04/20/the-sunshine-blogger-award💮🌹🏵️/

RULES FOR THE AWARD

  • Thank the blogger and provide link to their blog
  • Put the award logo
  • Answer the questions
  • Nominate your bloggers
  • Notify your nominees

My answers to the questions:

What do you think about the blogging world?

Everytime it’s not possible to find a person to talk. Sometimes we hesitate to express what we feel or the person with whom we are talking may find it difficult to connect to our thoughts. But the story is totally different in the blogging world. Here, you are part of a family filled with writers. There are many who share similar views like yours. This the medium through which one writer can have a look in the mind of another writer through their writings.

What motivates you to write a blog and who encouraged you?

I have been interesting in writing since I was a teenager. But I never realised that this is something I really love doing. Then eventually I started writing short poems and articles in my diary. I got to know more about blogging through google. Later I thought of sharing my ideas and views with more number of people and yes blogging is like a icing on the cake in a writer’s life.

What do you want to change in the world and why?

I wish to change the way most of people view “education“. Most of the time we think there is only one aspect of education that is “formal education” but we forget that education is not only confined to the institutions, schools and universities. We must realize the fact that learning moral values is also a part of education and our basic human values differentiate us from robots.

What you think about your followers?

My followers play a major role in making my blog successful. Their reviews help me to know more about my writing skills which includes my strength and my weaknesses.

Are you enjoying blogging?

Blogging has become a part of my life. It is something which was hidden deep inside my heart but was waiting for the opportunity to come out. It’s really fun. I can channelise my energy into something positive where I can express the craziest fantasies and share the lessons I learnt from my life with the world of bloggers.

Your favourite book? Why?

My favourite book is “The Charlotte’s Web” by E. B. White. This book is a children fiction but it teaches deep and true lessons about friendship and care. It teaches us to be humble, more kind and show mercy towards others.

Technology is a good thing or bad thing and why?

Well… Technology is a thing. The good or bad depends on how you make use of it. According to me it’s a good thing because bolgging is also a part of technology.

Is your life in balance?

The earth itself is facing the issues of imbalance ecosystem then how fair it would be to say that my life is in balance….

Share any one of your experience which changed you?

Well.. recently I was searching for some motivational content on YouTube then I came across this motivational speech by Muniba Mazari. Each and every word of her speech created a deep impact on my way of looking at problems of life. It taught me that we should never let the circumstances take our self belief away from us.

What you think about backtechinfo?

Backtechinfo provides one with very good motivational content and it’s simple language is easy to understand.

Short description about you in 3 words.

Imperfect real being

Tips for beginners :

My tips for beginners are as follows:

  • Write for yourself
  • Don’t wait for perfection because there always a road for improvment
  • Connect with more bloggers by reading their contents and truly appreciating their writings
  • Don’t get driven by the number of likes or comments. Just keep writing
  • Make blogging a habit. The more you write the better you get at writing….

Happy blogging!!😊

Questions for the nominees are-

  1. What fascinates you towards blogging?
  2. Describe your journey in the blogging world till today?
  3. What impact can blogging create on an individual’s personality?
  4. How often do you write posts on your blog?
  5. If you want to change one thing from your past what it would be?
  6. Who is your favourite author and why?
  7. Any breathtaking moment of your life? Describe.
  8. What is life? Describe in four words.
  9. Write about yourself in few sentences.
  10. What tips would you like to share with the budding writers?
  11. Any message for your followers

My nominees are:

http://rekhasahay.wordpress.com

http://meghaworldsite.worpress.com

http://ckonfab.com

http://amitavchowdhury.worpress.com

http://dailygrindofastayathomemom.wordpress.com

http://shwetatale.wordpress.com

http://empress2inspire.wordpress.com

http://thepoeticvibes.wordpress.com

Stop being clingy

The flower looks beautiful when it is on the plant

But when you pluck it thinking it’s all yours then you take the life out of it

And the flower dies…

Similarly in life there are many things which looks better at their own places

What we normally do?

When we like something too much we try to be possessive about it or we become too much dependent on it thinking our happiness resides in them

No, the key to your happiness is your “Attitude

Today if you wake up and think that the day is boring then definitely it’s gonna be dull and boring

You better wake up full of positivity in your mind and accept the fact that only you have the power to change your emotions

When you fall in love with someone

Fall in love thinking you are already complete in yourself

Never think that you are lacking something and someone’s gonna come and fill those gaps

No… It won’t work that way

It’s true for all the relations

Whether it’s friendship, relationship with your parents or anything

Getting attached or getting too much dependent on others will make you lose “yourself”

You would never realise what you truly want

Take control of your life

Take pride in your abilities

Never compare yourself to someone

Because a bread has it’s own value

The butter has it’s own value too

Together they enhance each other

But they do have their individual identity

Diet of an entrepreneur

“If you think the land is barren and useless then you are thinking like the rest of the world but if you focus on the solution and find alternatives then you are an entrepreneur”

Problems remain “problems” only when we think they are bigger than human abilities. But the moment you accept them as small and bigger challenges that moment you are heading towards a new discovery, an invention and this vision of yours will not only solve your problems but it’s gonna be helpful for millions out there who once thought it’s impossible to come up with a solution.

Entrepreneur resides in all of us. It’s not restricted to business only. Anyone who deals with life in a different and innovative manner is an entrepreneur. The most important is “you must think out of the box”.

Let us look at the diet of an entrepreneur:

  1. Ideas: Ideas come to you when you keep thinking about the solution from all the possible dimensions. You won’t get an idea in a blink. It’s not always necessary that all your ideas will be successful. You must not lose faith and come up with an another idea. You must not only dream of that idea but gather all your courage to make it happen.
  2. Risks: Trying something new is always risky but adventurous at the same time. Risks are unavoidable. They are the greatest teacher and helps to mould your personality. You become the better version of yourself. If things don’t go as you planned then you will end up with a good experience. Different risks bring different opportunities but you must be prudent enough to recognise and grab these opportunities.
  3. Passion: In a journey filled with risks, failures, criticisism and many ups and downs if you are not passionate about what you are doing then you won’t enjoy this journey of entrepreneurship. When passion mix with idea then something great is gonna come out of it. If you love what you do then the setbacks cannot stop you from making your dreams into reality.
  4. Failures: Failures are inevitable part of life. But failures should not stop you from moving further. It’s okay to fall down but it’s not okay to quit. It has been rightly said by Kiran Mazumdar- “Entrepreneurship is about being to manage failures and succeed after failures”
  5. Self belief-People will say that your dreams are ridiculous but that’s only because they have given up on theirs. Don’t get driven by other’s opinion. If you can believe it then definitely you can achieve it. “Don’t be afraid of being outnumbered. Eagles fly alone. Pigeons flock together”