Parents understand your feelings

They may act as if they are unaware of what’s going on in your life

They may pretend as if they know nothing about your daily titbits

But they actually do…

They know when you are lying and when your talks are true

They know when to act like a buddy and when to be your mentor

They know when to give you space and they know when to encourage you when you are on a undulated pace

They know when you need their advice because they know you may be an adult but still not that wise

They are ready to sacrifice their morsel of food to satiate your hunger

They may pretend as if everything’s alright even if things seem in danger

They make you laugh

They answer your cries

They never expect anything in return except love from your side

And what can you do?

Yes… Life is too busy

But if you can spend some time on your mobile phones checking notifications

Then why can’t you spend some quality time with your parents keeping your phones aside for a while

Why can’t you develop the courage to share your goals and visions with them?

You would say they may not understand your thoughts

Yes, they may not..

But they do understand you..

They can sense what makes you happy

They can see the enthusiasm and curiosity in your eyes when you discuss your personal and professional goals with them

How would this happen?

This may require patience

But talk to them..ask them to put forth their opinions

And listen to them without labelling their advice as right or wrong

Yes, they may not be always right but heart to heart conversations makes the bonding more strong

They will definitely encourage you if you yourself are clear about your decisions

Yes, you must have the clarity first if you expect others to understand you

Life is too short

And it all depends on you how you make your loved ones feel special

This can happen only when you love them selflessly…

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The indefinable emotions…

The emotions of sadness

The emotions of joy

The emotions of separation

The emotions of unison

Books define different emotions using varied vocabulary and it all depends on the emotions the writer is experiencing at that particular point of time

If the writer is calm and peaceful so will be the words scribbled on the paper which was once lying blank on the table…

The same blank page act as the window to the chain of emotions residing in the writer’s mind

Humans are lucky…

They can say what they feel

And if speaking out things don’t work then they can pen down their thoughts…

Yeah… These emotions are contagious

If you develop hatred for someone

Then “hatred” is what you are gonna receive

But recall the days when you feel extremely happy

The wide grin on your face is enough to reflect your state of elated bliss

You treat the people you meet with a warm and genuine smile

And your glittering eyes are enough to convey a message in a short while

The movies have a different style of conveying these emotions in the form of mental images perceived by the movie maker

But a lot of times we confuse these mental images with reality

The artist portray these emotions by letting the thoughts take form of a image by using variety of colours which add life to the emotions

The singer choose to sing the song which suits best with his or her state of mind…

The variation in the pitch of the song say it all…

Ohh! These emotions…

They can be felt…

They can be expressed…

They can be shared…

But still even you make use of different notions…

You would realise “indefinable” are these emotions…

Let your spark speak..

In the room full of lights lived a candle under an old table where people fail to notice it

Well… Who would bother to light up the candle when the room was full of bright tube lights and bulbs…

Poor candle felt heartbroken and sad

Thinking there’s no-one who would help it to see it’s light again

Then on a stormy dark night

The lights went off

Some people entered the room

But all they could see was darkness all around

“There was a candle lying under the table”- said the little girl in joy

She took the candle and lighted it

The darkness faded away

The spark of the candle was on it’s way

The candle felt extremely happy this day

All of us carry a unique spark…And the day you realize this that day you are definitely gonna create a mark”

Mindful conversations build true connection

You go out with your bestie thinking to have fun and great conversation

But what’s the point of that conversation when you are busy checking notifications on your phone

Busy replying to the e-mails and text messages

Busy in gossiping about the person who is not even present there at that moment

You say you spend quality time with your loved ones

But even during that time your mind is worried about what all works will be assigned to you the next day in your office or college

Feeling of Oneness forms a major role in making the bonds strong

And that happens when you are in the present moment

Observing every bit of what’s happening

Being mindful about your existence and also the existence of the other person

When you genuinely listen to the person and absorb what they are saying

And these conversations leads to meaningful relations